"Judge not lest ye be judged!"
I imagine you've heard people say this, perhaps belligerently, when what they mean is "I get to do what I want without anyone saying I shouldn't!" I know I have.
Or how about this one: "Only God can judge me!" Well, one day He will, and are you sure you're going to love the outcome of that?
Is the Bible's message really "Don't judge"? Is Jesus' teaching really "Don't judge"?
No. It isn't.
Let's start with the verse most people are referring to when they say, "Don't judge!" Usually they're referring to, or can quote, Matthew 7:1 only. "Do not judge, or you too will be judged" (NIV). But there's an entire teaching that follows, telling us that it's hypocritical judgment we're being warned against. Jesus is not saying to ignore wrongdoing. He's saying to avoid unwarranted or unjust criticism and nuisance faultfinding. He's saying that the more we point the finger, the more we can expect the finger pointed at us, and that God Himself will see to it that "with the measure we use, it will be measured to us." But He's also saying that if we deal with our own sin first--especially the sin we're accusing someone else of--we do have a basis for addressing the wrong in a fellow believer. He ends that particular discussion by saying, "Do not give dogs what is sacred; do not throw your pearls to pigs. If you do, they may trample them under their feet and then turn around and tear you to pieces." This means, I believe, that we have to make a judgment about whom to share truth or confidences with. It's knowing whom to focus on when we share spiritual or personal things, not unlike Jesus' instruction to the disciples to shake the dust off their feet when leaving an inhospitable house or city. So the passage ends with an example of a right judgment.
That phrase "right judgment" calls to mind John 7:24. Jesus said, "Stop judging by mere appearances and make a right judgment." (He was speaking to Jews who were angry with Him for healing on the Sabbath.) So judging according to how something will look is also what we're warned against. But realizing that if it's legal to circumcise a baby on the Sabbath, then it's legal to heal a man's entire body on the Sabbath, is an example of a right judgment, Jesus is saying. There are right judgments, and we are to make them.
Another example is given by Paul in 1 Corinthians 5. This chapter records an incident of a man having sexual relations with his stepmother. Put him out of the fellowship, Paul says (v. 2). I have already passed judgment on him, Paul says (vs. 3). Hand him over to Satan, Paul says (v. 5)--and I'll bet none of us have gone quite that far. I have firsthand knowledge, though, of an incident where a man left his wife and took up with another woman, insisted on continuing this situation regardless of gentle and prayerful confrontation, and his pastor had to ask him to leave the fellowship. A lot of churches would shy away from or flat-out not dream of doing so--I've been a member of those churches, too--but it is the biblical response (1 Corinthians 5:2, 13). And it is judgment. Paul goes on to elaborate that we don't judge those outside the church, but we do judge those inside. What's more, in chapter 6 Paul talks about the church's future as judges of the world and of angels (in the kingdom of God, Revelation 20:6) by way of saying they really should be able to settle (judge) their own comparatively trivial cases in the here and now.
So yes, we judge. We make judgments every day about whom to steer clear of, what places or activities to say no to (regardless of whether or not someone thinks we're judging them when we decline to participate), about whether a given action is right or wrong, and we need to. If we don't, we're in danger because our wisdom is eroding and our ability to discern sin is losing its edge. And if someone responds to this with "Don't judge me," it may be their own defensiveness, even guilt, speaking. What we want to avoid is unnecessary criticism, malicious finger pointing, lack of humility, a faultfinding spirit, and trying to correct someone when we are guilty of the same problem. At times like these, it's definitely appropriate to say, "Don't judge."











